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Today is Wednesday, March 15, 2006

我想做个小女人

nearly forgot to post this when i tried to explain why i change me link. hahahahaa...

i had a meeting yesterday with one of my clients. basically, we had a whole team there to present something, we ended up being trashed like sh*t by this woman-in-charge. She dressed normal, not in power suit, smile b4 the meeting started, but turned into a Babe In Total Control of Herself! NO HIDDEN MEANING!!!! she is totally cool! it's me who cant think of a more suitable word than this.

then i was thinking to myself the whole meeting... (i know i know, i should have been more focused on the meeting, but my presence there is just to add to the numbers, i think, coz my knowledge of the software is still shallow)... that i wanna become a 小女人。

sorry the post had to be change to chinese coz i wrote the feelings down in my log book in chinese. and im a little lazy to translate those thots into english :-D

我想做个小女人，不想当女强人。今天的客户是个女的。很有威力，权力。可是，我就是不想像她这样。嗯，可能她回到家，是个贤妻良母，听老公话的小猫咪，我不懂。可是，此时此刻，我就是不想像她这样骂人的样子。我们被她骂到无脸见人（当然，我夸张了!!!!）。她很有主见，很清楚知道自己对此会议要的是什么。很快的反驳。可是，就是说话的样子，太凶了。可怕。身为小小小小小小职员的我，吓到没敢出声。一句话给自己：没用

我的小女人不是天天在家等老公疼爱的那一种。我想做的是能听取别人意见先才作决定的那种女人。好好地听人家说，最后，又心平气和的把感受及看法或意见说出来。而且，又可以避免男性counterparts在你背后吱吱喳喳。哈哈！还是那句话给自己：没用

希望自己以后是那种平易近人的客户。
身为vendor的我们，应该只有被骂，而没骂人的权力吧！

bored to you by a living micro~organizm @ 10:54 AM

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@ Wednesday, March 15, 2006 10:00:00 PM, honey@e*sin shouted…

哈!我公司的GM也是这种女人,
很有主见,牙尖嘴利...
可说比一些男人来得干劲与"奸"
商场上也许她是个女强人,
如你说可能在家她可能也变成依畏在男人怀抱的小女人哦!哈!
如果要在事业中成为成功人式,如今性别已不重要了吧!不过可以说的是女人总是很,很,很....情绪化!当你遇上这样的女上司时,好痛苦啊!!!